
The Teacher
There was a story many years ago of
an elementary teacher.
Her name
was Mrs. Thompson.
And as
she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of
school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at
her students and said that she loved them all the same.
But that
was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat,
was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy
the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other
children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a
bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs.
Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad
red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his
papers.
At the
school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each
child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when
she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's
first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh.
He does his work neatly and has good manners, he is a joy to be
around."
His
second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked
by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal
illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His
third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He
tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his
home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's
fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much
interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps
in class."
By now,
Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She
felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents,
wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His
present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from
a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the
other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a
rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that
was one quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's
laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on,
and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy
Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs.
Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."
After
the children left she cried for at least an hour.
On that
very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic.
Instead, she began to teach children.
Mrs.
Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him,
his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster
he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the
smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love
all the children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year
later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that
she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years
went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he
had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the
best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four
years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had
been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and
would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured
Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever
had in his whole life.
Then
four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he
explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a
little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and
favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer
--the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The
story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that
spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He
explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was
wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the
wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of
course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the
one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing
the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last
Christmas together. They hugged each, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in
Mrs. Thompson's ear , "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me.
Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I
could make a difference."